by Bo Beaudoin
Yes Sis, unfortunately for quite a few people height and weight are a really BIG deal. :-) No pun intended. People are shallow and all too concerned with what other people might “think” about them and the person who is the object of their affection. The average person is simple minded and quick to point out flaws and quirks with others in an attempt to mask their own insecurities and low self worth.
But the conversation of insecurities and self worth brings us to the other more positive side of the conversation. Honestly, it really doesn’t matter if height and weight are a big deal to everyone else in the world. As long as you and the person you love are happy with what you see when you look at each other what other opinions, hang-ups, and issues matter?
To some of the men you meet height and weight will be a big deal. So… You’re not trying to spend your life with all of them, just one of them. And that’s all it takes… just one. Just one that you can see eye to eye with no matter how tall or short he may be. Just one that sees more than the woman standing before him but also sees the woman standing with him. Just one sis… Just one man taller or shorter, thinner or thicker, doesn’t matter. All the rest of them can take their lil superficial tails straight to hel… (got carried away, sorry.)
Look, Sis if you FEEL sexy. You ARE sexy. And sexy is attractive to EVERYONE. Sexy isn’t just about what you wear or what you look like. Sexy is about that air of confidence, openness, and approachability that makes each of us so much more attractive than people with low self esteem, insecurities, and other image issues. Just make sure you are the best you, you can be and the height/weight conversation will begin to fade to the back. This is about health and happiness NOT height and weight don’t be distracted sis. If you are happy and healthy you are the perfect height and weight.
Look sis, your height and weight will always be a non issue when you establish that your confidence is taller than you and your joy for life outweighs you. Let all the rest of those folks run around chasing these tiny lil stick women. Yes, men are automatically attracted to certain body types, but it’s the soul of a woman that captures a man’s heart NOT her dress size, shoe size, or figure. Believe me sis, there are men in your life right now that see you as beautiful and incredible… so just be that. tall, healthy, beautiful, and incredible.
Hope that helps sis. Thanks for trusting me with your question.
Copyright 2011 Bo Beaudoin