Recently, suicides of young men have been in the media. Being the mother of a son, I am truly scared sometimes, but I know that I have and will always give him love, respect and reassurance that it's ok to be himself. You have to look at your life in the simplest form And grow from that. Yes, there will be some funny parts to this article, but that's a little later.
Self love can determine what effects you. Bullies are crying out for help inside but don’t know how. Yeah sure that’s a tragedy, but why should my face, body or self esteem pay for that?
Unfortunately, today’s kids are not average. Nothing reinforces self confidence on TV, the Internet or in magazines. Internet bullying is a concept I will never get. I know words are harsh, but CAP LOCKS are not a threat. Words on a screen that you have the power to turn off can not harm you. People who believe things about you have no life anyway. They would have believed any negative thing about you regardless of the source.
What happened to a simple, “ Good job, you are so smart and talented”? It’s being taught that a compliment makes your kids “soft”. What the heck does that mean? We are raising kids not pit bulls. Dogs even get treats for good behavior . Lack of praise for a child, is like leaving a diamond unprotected. At some point, all the damage will break it. There is nothing wrong with admitting a child is really talented and can go further in life than you did. Yes, being gay is a sin, so are vanity, greed, fornication, tattoos, and lust.
So… that being said, here’s my list the types of people who don’t qualify to be a bully: