With all of the resources, we as Americans have to better ourselves, we still take the destructive route. I understand there is a recession going on. ( If you already broke, you really don’t see the difference) This can be the time to pursue what you really wanted to do instead of pulling everyone into your misery. What are you good at that can be seen publicly? What would you do without pay and still be happy? Build on those things. Misery loves company and right now this company has more friends than FACEBOOK.
I may come off as miserable sometimes, but I’m really not. I just speak my mind and things that make little to no sense to me.
Baby mamas that get over 2000 in child support for 1 child and complain that it’s not enough. Get over it, make it work. Whatever he won’t do or give, make up the difference Mothers have been doing it since the beginning of time If you have gotten accustomed to a certain lifestyle, make some changes and keep going.
Fathers that want credit for taking care of their kids. Good job, but there’s a little thing called DNA that says you have to do that anyway.
Thugs who claim they “owe the block” or a certain hood. Seriously?! Look at what you are claiming. Your name isn’t on one building , but you own it. You got a ticket for no insurance in front of the insurance company building, but you run the streets. You can't even go into the liquor store because you don’t have id, but you own it. Get some property, invest in something other than , rims, alcohol, drugs and other people’ failures.
People who make public announcements on private matters, then ask to for privacy, REALLY?!! If you want it to stay private, don’t announce it the first place.
People who blame their kids for everything wrong in their life. YOU had sex, you had the kid True, you didn’t make it alone, but it’s an adjustment. It’s best to have them AFTER you have done everything you wanted to do. Stop listening to others who think you should have kids early. They did what worked for them. MAKE the changes needed to get things done.
My last and finally issue is people that know the solution to a problem but would rather complain about it. If you know that answer and don’t feel like using it, share the solution with someone who can use it and shut up.
We have gotten use to the easy way out and expect the rewards of the hard way . We knock people who work hard and commend those who “got over” on someone. Make changes to get, do and be better, stop leaning on excuses because it makes you feel relieved about not giving something a good try You are in control. If you are in situation, where you are not, leave, pray for strength.